2 Corinthians 10:12 — “We do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves… But in measuring themselves by themselves and comparing themselves to themselves, they lack understanding.”
Reflection:
Comparing ourselves to others is one dangerous trap believers fall into. When we compare our gifts or progress to those of others, we fail to see the particular path God has planned for us. When we measure our gifts or progress against that of others, we lose sight of the unique journey God has set before us.
In the parable of the talents, it is likely that the third servant compared his one talent to the wealth given to the other two servants and felt that it was not valuable enough to work for. Comparison turns our race into a contest, leading to pride or despair. Pride is feeling superior to others, while despair comes from feeling inadequate.
God does not measure us against others but instead evaluates our faithfulness and the use of our gifts. Every person has a distinct purpose, and our abilities are custom-made for the particular task God has assigned us in His Kingdom. By comparing ourselves to others, we overlook the joy and satisfaction of accepting our own path. Instead of comparing yourself to others, recognize how God has specifically equipped you for your task. Consider any instances where you measure yourself against others, and ask for God’s guidance in embracing the gifts and path He has given you.
Prayer:
Lord, help me focus on You and my calling and not on the gifts or progress of others. Amen.
Action Step:
Write down one area where you struggle with comparison. Commit it to God and thank Him for your unique gifts.
Isaac Boluwatise 